wellness
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Who Stays…and Who Drifts? During the Covid pandemic there was a running joke at work that a colleague and I spent more time talking to each other than we did to our respective wives. We became really good friends and, even after the pandemic ended, still talked almost every day. After retirement we’re still good… Read more
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It’s always been the same. I see something I’d quite like to buy and my brain immediately says: “You just can’t justify spending that sort of money on that.” So, I move on. The strange thing is — after a lifetime of saving for tomorrow, tomorrow has finally arrived… and I’m not entirely sure that… Read more
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Photo: One of my Duke of Edinburgh’s Award groups setting – volunteering often happens behind the scenes. – A group of fourteen-year-olds setting off on their first unaided two-day Duke of Edinburgh Award expedition is quite a responsibility. They must navigate unfamiliar paths, cook their own meals, pitch tents, and somehow reach the finish in… Read more
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(A Rookie Retiree Myth-Buster) A couple of months before I took early retirement, I came out of a Webex meeting about pensions feeling pretty pleased with life. I had my pension numbers and the post-retirement financial picture looked okay. Conventional wisdom says that, if you get your finances sorted, you can walk away, relax and… Read more
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TO IGNORE OR NOT TO IGNORE IS THE QUESTION Deciding to retire gives you the freedom to slow down, step back, and – if you choose – stop trying to keep up with the latest gadgets and apps. After all, isn’t that what kids and grandkids are for? But is that really a wise move?… Read more
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Happy New Year! I hate going to the gym at this time of year—suddenly it’s bulging with hordes of new people, sporting brand-new tops and trainers, attacking exercise with the zeal of a convert.And then, 2–3 weeks later, the crowds thin out, resolutions fade, and everything returns to normal. Various studies suggest that around 80%… Read more
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It’s that time of year when kids get school reports and adults receive their appraisals. So why should retirement be any different? Here’s a look at what I thought I wanted, what I believed I could deliver, and what I imagined I’d enjoy doing this year… versus REALITY. ___ Like my old school reports, the… Read more
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I’ll admit it: I’m a hoarder. If there’s space in the house, I’ll fill it. Why get rid of something that might come in useful, especially when you’ve got the room to keep it? I probably come from a long line of hoarders too—rumour has it my grandfather would happily spend a fortune to collect… Read more
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Every holiday, I make myself the same promise: Don’t overeat. Don’t overdrink. Keep up the exercise.And every holiday, I break that promise. I tell myself, “You deserve a break!” and before long, I’ve slipped into late nights, lazy mornings, and just the thought of physical exercise fills me full of horror. Sound familiar? Retirement, especially… Read more